What should I do with my cheating husband who lives off my money?
Cut your losses before you acquire more debt. I dont know if theres a way to take him to court and have a judgement that they be split or what not, I'd probably plan worst case scenario, and do what you can for your credit over time. It's only going to get worse. You add in the cheating and I have to say why have you stuck around this long. Hes broken trust in one of the worst ways, and hes living off you, probably paying for his little trysts with your money. Honey it's time to go, theres nothing there for you anymore.